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The budget breakdown of a 32-year-old VP of People Ops in Durham, NCFeatured

The Budget Breakdown aims to broaden the conversation on money and offer insights into various approaches to spending, saving, and investing.

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💰 Income

Monthly Gross Income: $14,700

Monthly Net Income: ~$11k

Other Income Sources: $1,700 (Fractional People Ops Consultant for my old company)

Dependants: Partner and two dogs

🏡 Monthly Fixed Expenses

Rent: $3,500 (split 50/50 with my partner. My portion is $1750 for a 2500 sq ft house, with a yard and pool, in downtown Durham)

Utilities (Electricity, Water, Gas): $220

Internet: $0 (partner pays for it)

Car payment: $380

Car fuel: $100 (I work from home, so I don’t drive much)

Car and Renter’s Insurance: $115

Subscriptions: $126 (Streaming services, apps like Spotify, Netflix, and Rocket Money)

Cell phone: $95 (Verizon unlimited plan)

🛒 Monthly Variable Expenses

Groceries: $1,000 (I pay for groceries, my partner pays for meals out, which is why that part of my budget is so low)

Eating Out (Restaurants, Bars): $200 (includes coffee budget)

Entertainment (Movies, Events, Hobbies): $100

Clothing: $250

Personal Care: $250 (varies based on “hot girl hamster wheel” appointments e.g. nails, hair, facials, skincare)

💸 Monthly Savings and Investments

Emergency Fund Contributions: $1,500 (comes directly out of paycheck and goes into savings)

Retirement Savings: $600 Roth (my company has a strong match as well)

Other: Anything extra goes into a HYSA for vacations, large purchases, or events (like my wedding)

🎁 Monthly Miscellaneous

Gifts and Donations: $50-100

Pet Care: $140

Health and Wellness: $712 for personal trainer (two 60 min sessions per week) + peloton tread/app

⚖️ Final Balance

Total income: $12,300

Total expenses: $6,981

Final balance: $5,319

💭 Money Reflections

1. How much does tracking your personal finances influence your spending, saving, and investing habits?

Not that much. I have minimal debt and responsibility, so I don’t feel much financial pressure at the moment. I try to “pay myself first” aka save before I pay any bills or make any purchases.

2. Is there anything you wish you would spend less money on?

My trainer! Maybe personal care like facials etc… that would be the first to go if I need to scale back.

3. What do you consider important to spend money on?

Quality food and my health. Great place to live since I wfh.

4. Do you have any short-term or long-term financial goals?

Short-term, I’m trying to save for my wedding next year and a few epic trips.

5. Are there any specific saving or investment strategies you follow?

HYSA accounts are so important. I recommend SoFi.

6. What was your relationship with money like growing up? Did you talk about it with your parents/caregivers?

My parents are terrible with money and have filed for bankruptcy more than once. They talked about it but mainly in a negative way. It’s been my mission to not be in debt… and break the cycle of poverty in my family.

7. Did you receive any formal or informal financial education growing up? If yes, where did you learn to manage your personal finances?

Not growing up, but I went to business school, so that helps. Her First 100k has been a game-changer for me as well!

8. Do you feel well-versed in personal finance? What resources have you used to educate yourself?

Not at all. But I try to learn something new every year to evolve my strategy.

Looks like you’re doing great at saving! Can I ask about your retirement savings? You said $600 to Roth - is that a Roth IRA you’re maxing out or a Roth 401k? Even if you’re getting your contribution matched, you’re saving less than 10% of your gross. Since you have some extra room in your budget, I would try to save significantly more. If you are maxing your IRA and don’t have access to a 401k, then start a taxable investment account that you earmark for retirement.
Finance professional here and came to say the same thing as jwolcott. Looks like your income is pretty high and your expenses are low. I would definitely, definitely recommend being more aggressive with your retirement savings. Fidelity's guideline is that you should aim to save at least 1x your salary by 30 and 3x by 40. I think you can do it if you focus on maxing out your 401K (and possibly IRA) every year. Good job thus far!
Chiming in to cheer you on (great job with this) and to say hello as a fellow Durhamite!
lololol I've never heard the phrase “hot girl hamster wheel” but I know exactly what you mean! 😆Thank you for sharing your story!