Hi Fellow Elphas,

I wanted to share something I have been going through recently, which sometimes takes up more mental space than I would like.

This is w.r.t servers at a restaurant in downtown near me. One day, I was walking past that restaurant around their closing time and I am not sure if they were high or something but a group of servers (men) were staring pretty creepily and it made me really uncomfortable. Because it was in the middle of downtown, I returned "I can see you" look to convey this is not ok. I also sent message to the business hoping that it would reach the owner and they would keep this in check for future.

Since then the servers have been even more creepy, I am assuming the account is operated by them and were able to figure out this was based on recent incident. Yesterday while crossing by (with a friend who was completely unaware) one of they jumped out a corner and commented in a lewd way. All this takes up more energy than it deserves and makes me want to avoid that block in what is supposed to be one of the safest cities. Any advice/thoughts on how to deal with this?