Switching employer in mid of pregnancy

I'm grappling with this in the new year. I keep thinking that I'll do it, and then I question if it's the best thing since in the USA I won't be protected by FMLA at the new employer. I hope that some people are able to share their stories! I wish I had some advice, and rather I'm stopping by to say that you're not alone.
I am with you 💜
shaunalassche's profile thumbnail
I wish this was not a question that had to be asked but here we are in 2022. First, congratulations on your little one! Such a blessing and I hope you are feeling well in your second trimester. :) If it is a dream job, then career me thinks that you shouldn't pass up something great! You will have to vet your new employer very very well to make sure they treat pregnant women and working moms well but I am sure you would do that anyway! If you choose a great company/team/boss, they will be more than happy for you and will accommodate however is needed. The 3-month minimum is great, but you will want to make sure you are not cutting it too close since babies come in their own time. It is likely you would not qualify for FMLA so you will want to make sure to know like ramifications if the baby comes early and what that means. Get everything in writing, protect yourself, have the hard conversations with your future boss, and hopefully it works out! Best of luck!
Saranne's profile thumbnail
Not sure if this is helpful but my partner recently switched jobs (I am pregnant and in my second trimester) so during his negotiations he had to tell his new work, and that he also wanted to take 3x months parental leave (we live in Canada). His new company technically only offers paid parental leave after 1,5 years but he negotiated that and they are making an exception for him so he'll get a 100% top-up those 3 months :) He broke the news in the final negotiation talks! His new manager was so understanding and even encouraged taking the 3x months of parental leave, as he said he only took 5 days with his child and really regretted it.