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How do I host family when my work is fully remote?

I moved into a new 1-bedroom apartment a few months ago, which I'm super excited about. That said, I like to invite my parents to visit once or twice a year, and they usually come for a week or two at a time because it's an expensive flight. When they visit, I will give them my queen-sized bed and I'll sleep on the couch (or I'll share the bed with my mom, and my dad will sleep on the couch).

In the past, I had my work-from-home desk set up in my bedroom. I always hated this because I felt self-conscious about having a bed in the background of important video calls. It was fine during the pandemic since the whole world was caught off guard, but it started feeling unprofessional as people were gradually returning to offices (maybe this is my own insecurity to get over).

Given all of this, I was pretty happy that in my new place I could create a really cool WFH background behind the desk in my living room. The living room and kitchen are combined and are quite large, whereas the bedroom is tiny and you only have room to walk the perimeter around the bed. I was thinking this was a great floorplan because extra floorspace in a bedroom is a waste.

But I totally forgot about my having my parents visit. In the past when they've visited, I've either had my WFH set up in the bedroom, I worked for a company that had an office, or I've been on vacation when they visited.

I've thought about getting them a hotel or an AirBnB, but I'm in a high cost of living area so that seems expensive. I know I could take calls from my bedroom, but I would literally need to be sitting on my bed and I wouldn't be able to reference a second monitor or take any notes since the only thing in my lap could be a laptop. For people with fully-remote jobs, does your company give you an allowance to spend on WeWorks or some place to work that is more functional than a coffee shop?

How are people making this work? Maybe there's an obvious solution I'm missing!

Hi Felipa214! Totally get you as I also WFH and have friends staying with me in the next few weeks AND I live with my partner in a one-bedroom apartment. A few options:1. Ask your company to give you a coworking stipend2. Pay for one yourself OR do several trial days at different coworks (if they're only visiting for a week)3. Do you have meetings all throughout the day and every day? What do your parents usually do when they visit? Do they hang around the apartment? If you have only a couple of meetings, maybe they can step out to a park or a museum when those are scheduled? But if you have lots of meetings and some are spontaneous, it might make them feel like they're inconveniencing you if they can't be home most of the day – I guess this depends on how you feel about this and your relationship with them!4. I'm not sure where you live, but I know that in bigger cities in Asia, some multinational companies e.g. Google (Google for Startups), Deloitte, have free coworking spaces. You just need to become a member (might involve a form) and you can work in those spaces for free – it's actually pretty amazing.
Coworking stipend is certainly the better option, but if you cannot get it then here are some ideas: I have been through this situation, my parents came over to stay with me in my 1BR apartment and they stayed with me for 2 months. This was several years back when coworking spaces were not around, but WFH was a benefit my then-employer was offering. I think keeping a tiny desk in the bedroom is the best option, because you can close the BR door and work. Make sure you have a virtual backdrop set up so people who do teleconference with you don't have to know that you are in your bedroom.Keeping the desk in LR will not be ideal because that essentially makes LR noisy and your parents will have to stay confined in the tiny bedroom.HTH.