Why do you sometimes need to have an unpleasant experience in your daily life?
it doesn't matter if it is on a workplace, relationship, famlily etc.
On a spiritual level they say it helps you grow. Or what people also say you create your own happiness or misery. And there are many other reasons to add.
But what most people forget is that it helps you to reflect and getting clear in what you don't want, in a relationship, job, etc. It doens't even matter that you don't know what you whant. The choice matters. Most of the time there is a reason why somebody is in a situation, it could be that you don't even remember it. It lies somewhere in your unconsiousness waiting to pop up, so you can work your unresolved isseus out and make your change, especially when you have a repeat pattern.
Your (spiritual)guides and team can help you to release your from what you don't want and help you in making steps in the right direction(in family,work,relationship, moving etc). They can't help you if you don't make a choice and ask for help, because of the law of free will. You can also put it in another words if you don't ask them, you have unemployed guides.
It's therefore improtant that you're alert to external influences that try to influence your choice negativity.
Have a nice weekend...