research-men-get-more-actionable-feedback-than-women

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brookeburton·Feb 15·7 replies

Thought this new research is really interesting - it explores a dataset of open-ended written feedback for 146 mid-level career leaders provided by their peers/managers. Study found that there are four key differences in how advice was framed for female leaders vs. male leaders: Vision: - men encouraged to "set the vision"- women encouraged to "focus on delivery"Political Skills: - men encouraged to "leverage politics" - women encouraged to "cope with politics" Asserting Leadership: - men encouraged to "claim their space" - women encouraged to "get along" Confidence: - men encouraged to "display more confidence" - women encouraged to "be more confident"Have you noticed a difference in how your feedback is framed vs. your male peers? Would love to hear thoughts!

AngieYang·Feb 15·1 reply

Also interesting that this study was led by female researchers!!

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brookeburton·Feb 15

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brookeburton·Feb 15

yes true!

JenYi·Feb 16

Thank you so much for sharing!

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SamanthaB·Feb 16·1 reply

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SamanthaB·Feb 16·1 reply

It is very interesting and yes, unfortunately, I have had first-hand experience of this. The "get along" one is particularly interesting and typical of what's thought of us female folk by a number of senior men that is when we speak up and out.

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brookeburton·Feb 16

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brookeburton·Feb 16

Yep I totally agree. I've also been told that I need to "get along" better with others - when I felt like I was just trying to engage in healthy debate (and this feedback actually came from other women)

LoganCharles·Feb 17·1 reply

I think the difference between 'be more' and 'display more' [X characteristic] is super interesting. 'Display' assumes you already possess this characteristic; 'be' assumes you need to change something about yourself. Feedback I've gotten in the past included 'be more assertive' and I think had someone said 'display more assertiveness' it would have seemed more attainable. Like, I don't need to change who I am, I just need to display a certain element of my personality more in this position.

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brookeburton·Feb 17

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brookeburton·Feb 17

so true! so subtle, but the meaning is much different