Leaving an emotionally abusive marriage

I’m so sorry you are going through this and I want to say that everything you are feeling is normal especially the guilt. I don’t have much to say but I just want to say that you are very courageous for leaving. It’s not an easy decision but no matter how long it took, you choose yourself and that is something to be proud of. One day at a time 💙.
💕 Thank you.
Aileen's profile thumbnail
The very best of luck to you. Well done on getting yourself to this point. You’ve recognised and acknowledged the issue. You’re working on getting away. That’s excellent. I’m sorry that you’ve had to deal with this for so long. I’m also impressed at your strength and bravery.
💫 Thank you for you kind words.
shanicejdouglas's profile thumbnail
I'm really sorry to hear that you've endured this kind of emotional abuse for so long. I don't know you, but I just wanted to say that I'm proud of you. One of the hardest things to do in life is to be vulnerable enough to pretty much destabilize all that you know, but in the end, you've done it, and (while it may not feel that way right now), you're stronger for it. Processing this experience won't be linear, easy, or even quick. However, one thing to keep in mind is to give yourself grace and shower yourself with patience and kindness at all points.You got this 🌼🌱
🙌🏻 Yes, it does feel destabilizing but long overdue. Thank you!
emilypatterson's profile thumbnail
It is really hard, but you will be better and happier on the other side, I promise.
hannahkate's profile thumbnail
Thank you so much for sharing! Deciding to leave is the hardest step, but every day that you choose yourself and your safety you'll feel better. I hope you continue to trust your intuition and find the validation & support you need.
BetsyBarker's profile thumbnail
Have you watched Brene Brown’s TED talk on shame? Very freeing!If there was alcohol involved, there are very strong support groups for families and friends of alcoholics. He made his choices, and it’s not your fault !You need to survive no matter what he does, and to build a new life based on your wants and dreams.